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Real Make-Believe

March 18, 2010

In probably the best ever get-well gift I’ve ever received, I just finished two films from the Netflix On- Demand Directory. Enjoyed the 2009 remake of “The Taking of Pelham 1-2-3” and a documentary on the real “Donnie Brasco”. Besides being distracted for a few hours (which was needed on a stressful day like this one), I’m learning the land of make-believe that we learned about in Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood might be more real than we think.

Take John Travolta and Denzel Washington’s performances in the 2009 Version of “The Taking of Pelham 1-2-3. Two perfectly astonishing performances, by two accomplished actors despite a mediocre script. A look under the cover however brings me to my point. Neither actor really needed this film for money, or prestige, so why did they do it? Because make-believe can be addicting, that’s why. John and Denzel are two middle aged men, with families, with problems, with issues and troubles just like most of us. These guys are good, and get better with every film because being not themselves is fun, probably exhilarating. Hell, it’s even better to get paid top dollar to do it!

What’s bad about knowing today that you’re portraying a “normal” train dispatcher, who in a few hours will save nearly 20 lives and the theft of $10 million dollars at the end of the movie? Even if you were cast for the “bad guy” role like John, life’s still good knowing you’re the mastermind of a major criminal enterprise that stops New York City, and for that matter, the world for just a few moments of revenge.

Bringing the discussion closer to real life, take the story of the “real” Donnie Brasco. He accepted a six-month undercover assignment that turned into six years. Being clear that this man is a hero for his actions, you could see in his interview that he continued the operation because of the joy of being an undercover hero who would play a big role in bringing down major organized crime figures. He now has to live undercover with his family in various locations, but imagine if he had to trade that experience for being a regular “go-home” guy. We’d all be a little less safe for it.

“It’s hard to say that I’d rather stay awake when I’m asleep, ‘Cause everything is never as it seems when I fall asleep, because my dreams are bursting at the seams” go the lyrics from the Owl City song “Fireflies”. Sure, no one wants to admit that fully grown men and women like to daydream, and have vivid imaginations when they sleep. Not the adults who have mastered their careers, and personal lives, and daily challenges of life. But kids, it’s real. We all daydream; the dad that fixes everything still wants to be able to fly with both arms outstretched, over the rooftops at night. Super mom who works and cooks still dreams at night of being an envied supermodel. Even supermodels probably dream of just having a nice family to cook for and enjoy at night, instead of another four-star hotel room service meal. For the land of make believe, where all of our problems are solved, and our wishes are granted remains a real place in all of our dreams. And we’re all better for it, because as long as we have dreams, there’s always something to wish for.

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Is a Line Being Crossed in Haiti Coverage?

January 19, 2010

 Is a Line Being Crossed in Haiti Coverage?.

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Mother Nature’s Sinister Thoughts

December 24, 2008



Mother Nature’s Sinister Thoughts

Originally uploaded by Manuel Smith

So, what’s with Mother Nature lately? More specifically this morning, where there is this weird combination of steady drizzle over hard frozen ice. That’s not even to mention the daylight that has not even appeared close to 7 am.

Yes, she tries to blame it on "global warming", or "man made weather effects" but this one was all on you Mother Nature. Your sinister thoughts still shine through….even at 6:30am.
Sent on the Now Network™ from my Sprint® BlackBerry

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The Power of NOW (and my 2009 Resolution)(and my 2008 wrap up)

December 22, 2008

This is it. We’re here. The end of 2008.

And you know the weirdest thing about it all? For the first time, I’m ahead of the change, and ready to plan for the new changes that are going to come. Every year in the past (that I can remember), it always felt like I was going with the flow, reacting and responding to external factors that were present in my life.

That’s all going to change in 2009. The beginning of 2008 felt like everything was out of control.  I’m back in the saddle now, and ready for another long ride. To somewhere, anywhere…and not just in the pack….as the leader.

I recently went into a bookstore with Meelah; mostly to pick out some children’s books for her. On the counter; a book almost jumped out at me. “The Power of Now”, by Eckhart Tolle. To be perfectly honest, the ideas in the book are so powerful…that I’m barely even done a quarter of the The Power of Nowbook myself. The changes that it moves you toward are so deep that I can only take it in small fragments….like a super rich chocolate cake, small, small bites.

The basic premise of the book is how to enjoy the current moment you live in….the Now. The past and the future are really only illusions. Maximizing the terms of your current situation is what makes the best life for you possible.  Always being the responsible person, the planner, the anticipator….I’ve almost NEVER lived by this rule.

That brings me to my resolution for 2009….which is really nothing. I plan to live my life to the fullest this year. I’m going to do a good job at work….and leave on time. I’m going to be a great dad at home….and not rush the moments that I have with my daughter, my family, or my friends. Most importantly, I’m going to enjoy every moment that comes my way, expected, or unexpected…and enjoy it without preconcieved notions or expectations.

It’s even just relieving to think about.

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2008, Year of The Dark Knight?

December 7, 2008

In the midst of a violent bank robbery, where numerous shots have been fired, the front doors have been broken in, and the thieves have cowered everyone into their deepest fears; a bank manager asks the gun-toting thief before him “What do you believe in?” He responds, “I believe that what doesn’t kill you simply makes you… stranger.” In a dazzling performance as the time honored Batman character “The Joker”, actor Heath Ledger is said to give what may have been the greatest performance of his career by delivering surprisingly sensitive lines like that one; from the lips of a madman. “Introduce a little anarchy. Upset the established order, and everything becomes chaos. I’m an agent of chaos. Oh, and you know the thing about chaos? It’s fair!” continues ‘The Joker”

Introducing Chaos, intended or not, it’s exactly what this film has done. Only rarely are first-run films re-released into the theaters, but demand to see the 150 minute-plus film is still strong enough for the studios to plan to place the film back in theaters this January. And if that weren’t enough; the Academy Awards might also break a rule….awarding an action film it’s top awards. Strong rumors say the film is a leading contender to win at least Best Director & Best Picture at the upcoming awards ceremony. The awards have rarely been bestowed upon action movies….much less a “Batman” flick.

Seeing the headline announcing the accolades the film is garnering; it reminded me that 2008 was the year of “The Dark Knight” in more than just 2109608263_db0de9b401a movie. The themes of the film revolved in my real life this year; the year where everything that I assumed to be reality, turned out not so much to be.

Since I’ve been a boy; I’ve been fortunate enough to have a clear moral compass. It’s pretty deep to say that right out; but it’s true. Being on the right side of things has always been of utmost importance to me, the point where adequate sleep becomes an issue when outstanding wrongs that I feel should be corrected is not. Relaxation only comes when the world revolving in a circle of “right”. I know, I know…call me a goodie, or holier-than-thou, but it’s honestly the way I feel, for better or worse.

After enjoying a life of mostly blessings and love from family, friends, co-workers, and even strangers….2008 was the year that everything changed. Almost everything that could have gone wrong did. Imagine everything that could happen to bring a man to his knees, it did. But more than the changes that occurred in the darkest period of my life; I experienced the darkest side of some of the closest people in my life. The worst of their personalities and traits began to be displayed all at once. For someone used to expecting the best from everyone, it was overwhelming to feel let down by the people you felt were better when you needed them the most. At one point, the road back to the peaceful wonderland I used to know seemed to permanently disappear, or in the words of The Joker “Y’see, madness, as you know, is like gravity. All it takes is a little… push.”

When Dark Knight Co-star Aaron Eckhart was asked why he thought the action film was up for so many accolades; he told the Associated Press that the movie was “important …sociologically. I feel like in this day and age, with terrorism and with the cancers of the city and people trying to find a voice within their own city, this is an important film.” At one point the movie appears to be over, when the supposed white knight of the film, new District Attorney Harvey Dent begins working for evil explaining “You either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain.” And therein lies the point of the “The Dark Knight”, or is it?

Call it naiveté; or maybe stubbornness…but despite the challenges; it’s been pretty hard for me to consider things in shades of gray. Despite disappointments, I still try to place everything in clear categories of right or wrong, good or bad. It may appear to make overly complex things too simple or creating expectations of things, or people that may never be met….but what’s wrong for hoping & planning for the best in everything. Especially when you’re giving out that same energy, with the only expectation is of receiving the same in return.

I can think of a few people now, who would throw this very argument right back at me in disgust. How can you expect fairytale style results from the real world as shared in the words of “The Joker”, “You have all these rules and you think they’ll save you?”

For me, I learned that the night is darkest just before the dawn. And that even goes even sometimes for the “Knight”….who if holds on to hope just long enough, will live to see the dawn that is coming, or in the words of the “Batman”, “Sometimes, truth isn’t good enough, sometimes people deserve more. Sometimes people deserve to have their faith rewarded.” And that’s the real point of The Dark Knight….or nights.

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Crossroads

November 17, 2008

 

Talk about the crossroads of the New Millennium.

2003 seems like yesterday, where the crowds of pre-teens would crowd the corner of 46th and Broadway, just hoping for glimpse of the latest pop superstar to appear in the windows of MTV’s then-flagship show “Total Request Live”. I was the only guy, just a little older than this crowd, trying to bust through them so I could make it to work on-time at the up & coming leader of cable news, FOX News Channel. I really hated those crowds back then…..but how could I really be that mad? Times Square is the world’s media crossroads. With the industry growing as rapidly as it
was; traffic jams could all but be expected.

So with that in mind, I should not have been surprised to see the paths of “TRL” and my career intersect again. This time on the pages of the New York Times.

“It’s the new reality“, sums up Al Primo.. Last week, the Times asked the man considered to be the father of modern local TV news to talk about the new video sharing partnership announced by the local stations divisions of FOX & NBC that is expected to revolutionize the way that local television newsrooms operate across the nation. As a local desk Assignment Editor, it’s an exciting, but uncertain time, because the total way I’ve been trained to work, think, and operate will have to
change. And sooner rather than later, since my station is among those that will lead the way in implementation of the partnership.

“But it’s ending now”, exclaimed 15 year old Helena Mounesa to the New York Times as she waited outside of MTV studios in Times Square for her first, and probably only ever peek at the last taping of MTV’s Total Request Live on Sunday. For “TRL” too, a changing marketplace meant sagging ratings; and less relevance to a new crowd of younger viewers. For now, the show is being placed on hiatus. Asked about the show’s eventual return, show Producer Dave Sirulnick tells the Times, “Let it
catch its breath! Been working hard – for 10 years!,”

Not the right attitude Dave! With your show going OFF the air, I’ll opt for the advice of Kid Rock from the last episode of “TRL”, “Well, guess what? It’s over; I ain’t putting the cigar out.” While I probably won’t be downloading his next CD, I will keep the cigar of the future lit too. If there’s news to be broken; let’s find even more new ways to break it….and for those Times writers? Keep those pencils sharpened, there are going to be some NEW headlines to talk about in the future.

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The day everyone participated

November 5, 2008


The day everyone participated

Originally uploaded by Manuel Smith

Just two photos from polling places in Philadelphia on Election Day Nov 4th!
Arriving shortly after 7am, my personal wait to vote was only about 20 minutes.
As the sun rose further however, the lines began to grow.
It’s going to be an historic day!

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The day everyone participated

November 5, 2008



The day everyone participated

Originally uploaded by Manuel Smith

Just two photos from polling places in Philadelphia on Election Day Nov 4th!
Arriving shortly after 7am, my personal wait to vote was only about 20
minutes.
As the sun rose further however, the lines began to grow.
It’s going to be an historic day!

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That championship feeling….

November 1, 2008

Friday, October 31, 2008

10am

Already, the ride into Center City is going to be an ordeal. The trollies are packed before they reach 43rd Street, and there’s at least ten people waiting just at my stop for one of these cars to stop and let us on. Finally, the next one stops….but we can’t even IMAGINE a seat, since we’re just lucky to have a place to stand on this packed vehicle. WAIT! The Operator is yelling for us to move back and allow even more passengers to pack in.

There’s a guy who really smells like p**s that’s assaulting all of our noses, toes are being trampled as people move with the jerking trolley, and the mass of bodies is starting to make it too hot. We’re finally at 15th…and the ordeal is over for me, but not for the hundreds of people flooding off the trolley, and just waiting their turn in the crowd to be able to climb the stairs out.

Just when it seems like you can’t take it anymore, here comes that theme….we are the champions, we are the champions, WE ARE THE CHAMPIONS…..GO PHILS!

Remember that Times Square championship feeling I mentioned earlier this week. It’s here in Philly now, and not just on our streets, but in the subways, in the suburbs, and all over our region. This will be a “Red October” to remember, and just in case no one has said it enough, THANKS PHILLIES!

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Ween-o-Hallow

November 1, 2008


Ween-o-Hallow

Originally uploaded by Manuel Smith

It’s always fun to work in New York City on Halloween Night.

Coming out of that underground station, you really are not sure to expect as you see all of the ghosts, goblins, pretend-prostitutues, pimps, and angels heading your way.

By the time I’m usually working, people have already
have had most of the evening to become fully drunk, and are finally heading home, mostly in couples, to hopefully enjoy what the rest of the night has to offer.
Personally, I never really got into Halloween all that much. I enjoy the haunted houses, hayrides, and pumpkins part….but I leave the dressing up and trick-or-treating to everyone else. Although the kids like it, trick-or-treating always felt a little like begging to me.

But on the dress-up portion, it’s never really appealed to me. For the
most part, it seems like us adults do plenty of this already. Before we
even get to work, we spend lots of time and effort to dress as a
professional. Even those of us WITHOUT a uniform. How about when we go
out? Yes, we need to have a few hours to get dressed up. Going to the
Gym, gotta have the gym “outfit”. Let’s not get started with the special
occasions, Wedding Tuxedos, Beach Bikini’s, Birthday Blazers…..

Here’s my idea for 2009. Let’s have Ween-O-Hallow. The reverse of
Halloween, a day where everyone comes out as their true selves. Hmmmm,
would that holiday be a scary or festive occasion? I’d sure look forward
to it. This could be the day that the person who smiles in your face,
can really show you the knife they have ready for your back. Or the
liars around you can finally for once tell the truth.
On a more positive note, maybe the people who always pull for you
behind-the-scenes can finally be recoqnized, or the people who have
secret crushes can reveal them to you without the pressure of Valentine
Day Cupid on their back.
For everyone, for better or worse, wouldn’t it really be nice to have
just one day a year, where you can let your hair down, and really be
yourself. For me, that would be a holiday that I would really look
forward to celebrating.

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